i wonder why the caption "women are so difficult to understand" such a frequently used popular phrase... i mean who said guys aren't? they are equally difficult to get..
they come with cute lovee dovee surprises first, make you fall in love and then take you for granted.. it makes us think a lot.. for example are they actually serious about us,are they goofing around or they just going with the flow.. we never know.. and when you question them about their integrity, they have all the right excuses and cheesy dialogues to cover up their thoughts "just because i don't call you often doesn't mean i don't love you,it's not that i am in love with someone else". bamn!!! and that's exactly what makes us think you are with someone else.
they never get the small things, everything has to be explained. for them it's weird that we pay attention to little details... actually when they are dealing with their girlfriend, details shouldn't matter.. just once try and tell that to your wife later... tell her its ok that she can keep the house as messy as she wants or its alright if she forgets to put salt in your dish or she doesn't notice what your dearest mommy likes or dislikes!! guys we pay attention to details that's what makes your house look good when you come home after a tiring day!!
regarding emotions men are equally complex.. they don't understand how they feel, in case they know how they feel they don't know how to react, when they do react its absurd,when they realize its absurd they come and apologize..by the time they come its almost always too late... and then they start blaming themselves all over again.. and that's when the wasted and boozing phase comes... and they say women are complicated!!
their problem with us is that we think a lot.. and our problem with them is that they don't think at all!! and we do put up with lot's of your stuff too.. we understand the breakdown when your favourite team doesn't win, when your interview doesn't go good, when you want time with your friends alone, when your play station is not working and you are soaked in grief...
the thing i want to say is that its not always we women who are complex and complicated.. you men are too.. but just in different ways.. the only difference is that we accept you with your faults... and not make a caption of your shortcomings and blame everything on it!!
they come with cute lovee dovee surprises first, make you fall in love and then take you for granted.. it makes us think a lot.. for example are they actually serious about us,are they goofing around or they just going with the flow.. we never know.. and when you question them about their integrity, they have all the right excuses and cheesy dialogues to cover up their thoughts "just because i don't call you often doesn't mean i don't love you,it's not that i am in love with someone else". bamn!!! and that's exactly what makes us think you are with someone else.
they never get the small things, everything has to be explained. for them it's weird that we pay attention to little details... actually when they are dealing with their girlfriend, details shouldn't matter.. just once try and tell that to your wife later... tell her its ok that she can keep the house as messy as she wants or its alright if she forgets to put salt in your dish or she doesn't notice what your dearest mommy likes or dislikes!! guys we pay attention to details that's what makes your house look good when you come home after a tiring day!!
regarding emotions men are equally complex.. they don't understand how they feel, in case they know how they feel they don't know how to react, when they do react its absurd,when they realize its absurd they come and apologize..by the time they come its almost always too late... and then they start blaming themselves all over again.. and that's when the wasted and boozing phase comes... and they say women are complicated!!
their problem with us is that we think a lot.. and our problem with them is that they don't think at all!! and we do put up with lot's of your stuff too.. we understand the breakdown when your favourite team doesn't win, when your interview doesn't go good, when you want time with your friends alone, when your play station is not working and you are soaked in grief...
the thing i want to say is that its not always we women who are complex and complicated.. you men are too.. but just in different ways.. the only difference is that we accept you with your faults... and not make a caption of your shortcomings and blame everything on it!!
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ReplyDeleteMen Vs Women... the oldest debate in this world... neway do read the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus'. It answers many of the apprehensions you share.
ReplyDeletehmmm.. arre m not saying you guys r always at fault.. jus thoughts re penned dwn!! hota kadhi kadhi :P
ReplyDeleteToo good..this is prob one of ur best blogs (based on my understanding :P)..reminded me of "Hum-Tum" song..good thing is that you have done (some) justice to ur opposite sex also :D
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, looks like u were really freaked out wen u wrote dis one :D
ReplyDeletehehehe.. yeah i was kinda angryy dat tym!! n thanks!! :) :) :) :)
ReplyDeletethe beam gets balanced if we weigh the complexities of each gender against each other. No matter what the relationship it is, if we can accept people as they are, things will never turn complex. But at times a little complexities, misunderstandings and fights over it are good. They are the ones that make the relationship lively.
ReplyDelete@leo... well it was just a frustrating day... and it all came out in words!! i know how different and yet simple these differences are between genders... but the situation got best of me!!
ReplyDeletehahha....so nicely pointed out..yeh men can be complicated too (and sometyms emotional , tho they will never accept that!) Lol
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Deletehaha!! awesome...
ReplyDelete"the only difference is that we accept you with your faults... and not make a caption of your shortcomings and blame everything on it!! " Nicely pointed out..:)
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